to join :delimiter :list [:result []]
  output cond [
    [ [empty? :list]   :result ]
    [ [empty? :result] (join :delimiter butfirst :list first :list) ]
    [ else             (join :delimiter butfirst :list
                                        (word :result :delimiter first :list)) ]
  ]
end

to quibble :list
  local "length
  make "length count :list
  make "text (
    ifelse [:length <= 2] [
      (join "\ and\  :list)
    ] [
      (join "\ and\  (sentence join ",\  butlast :list last :list))
    ])
  output ifelse [empty? :text] "\{\} [(word "\{ :text "\})]
end

foreach [ [] [ABC] [ABC DEF] [ABC DEF G H] ] [
  print quibble ?
]

bye